CHOSEN
Break free from the pattern of settling in relationships and step into the version of you that claims her voice, owns her power, and confidently CHOOSES herself....
.....ready to truly be held by a MAN and not a boy
.....tired of reading about women having org@sms but rarely experiences one herself (unless it's when she can’t sleep and pulls a vibr@tor out)
.....sick to death of attracting situationships that leave her feeling drained and confused
.....OVER the fact that the only guys who seem to like her are ones she sees as friends
For the woman who is
It’s not that theres no good men/women out there or that there’s something wrong with you;
You’re just attracting the wrong person because you’re dimming your own feminine radiance!
Babe, to put bluntly....
You’re Cock-blocking yourself
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For the woman ready to be confident in her worthiness, so in love with herself, who chooses HERSELF—and from that place attracts whatever the f*ck she wants.
Imagine…
📣 You use your voice to confidently stand up for yourself and you walk away from people and situations that don’t serve you.....
becasue you know your person is out there and you’re not settling
💦 You advocate for your pleasure with ease because you know you are worthy of it
❤️🔥 Deeply trusting yourself and know at the end of the day that you have your own back
💕New and unexpected opportunities are coming because you’re so cracked open!.....
...deeper relationships with parents and friends, unexpected job opportunities, etc.
🫦 Now being so connected to your body and inner truth that you stop wasting time worry about other people
✨ Feeling alive, ignited, turned on for life. Every dang day.
💃 You are owning your radiance and the ripple effect it has on your life is endless...
CHOSEN is a three month transformative journey where you go from the girl hoping one day she will be chosen to a woman who is filled by her own radiance, instead she is the one choosing.
As a result you will attract high quality partners, you will have deeper, more fulfilling connections and feel grounded and empowered within yourself because you got your back...
And truly that's a feeling that is priceless.
In these three months you will be going from
Attracting partners who respect you, show genuine interest, and truly understand you, rather than those who disrespect you, waste your time, and ghost you.
Rather than dimming your light to make others comfortable, unapologetically allowing yourself to shine because you know who you are and feel secure within.
Transforming from a people pleaser who mindlessly says yes and fears being yourself into a loud, silly, sexy, and powerful woman who confidently expresses her needs, recognizing her worth without fear of being authentic.
Instead of walking into a bar with constant unease, scanning for potential approaches and feeling down when none come, go into a bar feeling sexy and confident. Have an amazing time, laughing with friends, and whether or not someone approaches, revel in the sexy and confident energy you exude.
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It all beings with you mama
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My Story: my deep need to be chosen even if it hurt me
For most of my 20s, I found myself in toxic situationships, one after another, hoping the next guy would be different.
I endured unhealthy relationships because I thought that was normal. I believed it was normal for guys not to respond for days, and the anxiety it caused within me was just a part of the dating scene. Not talking during a whole date, merely listening to the guy talk to himself, felt normal. I believed expressing my needs was too much and made me too needy because I thought being independent was cool. Instead, I suppressed all my needs and desires, ultimately shaming myself for having them. I gaslighted myself, thinking that any need was my issue to work through, rather than expecting him to change the way he showed up for me.
Instead of vulnerably putting myself out there, I chose to dim my feminine radiance because it felt safer than vulnerably feeling worthy and desirable enough for someone else to find me attractive. I blended in with the guys, talked and acted like them, and eventually faded into the background. I wasn't one of the guys, and I wasn't a girl they desired; I was just there, sitting with the pain of not being chosen again and again. I felt lonely, undesirable, far from feeling sexy, and lacked confidence in myself.
I deeply wanted to feel safe and chosen by a man, thinking it would make me sexier, more confident, love my body because he loved it, and ultimately feel a sense of aliveness that I couldn't feel without him.
So, I got into a relationship.
In the process, I lost myself. He chose me, just what I hoped for and dreamed of. He chose me from the moment he met me—so I went with it… even though every ounce of me knew it wasn’t right, (I literally wrote that in my journal the day we met). However, the need to be desired and chosen trumped what my body was telling me, gaslighting myself, persuading myself that it was due to the lack of love I witnessed growing up. I not only stayed but moved to the UK to be with him. I left my dream, my life, for the illusion of love, validation, and being chosen and I feel like soooo many women have done this, gone along with a relationship because he chooses you. I am shouting 'N0 MORE! WE ARE DONE WITH THAT AMIRIGHT?!
After 9 months of dating, 5 of those months living together in England during lockdown, I was a shell of myself. From traveling solo, being nomadic, liberated, and free—the very things I thought would make me more alive drained me and depleted me of my own life force.
As I flew back to the states, I was only half the woman I was when I realized all this time I was searching for aliveness, love and good sex outside of myself. For the first time, I had to find it within. I had to choose myself.
That's where my journey began, and yours can too.
After four years of connecting with my body, exploring pleasure, and educating myself on my feminine essence, I now see myself as a radiant AF woman. I speak my needs in relationships with unapologetic love for myself—just ask my last partner, lol. I feel deeply safe and secure within myself. When I'm dating, I'm not looking for someone to fill my cup; instead, I see what someone can bring to my life. I lead with the energy of choosing rather than being chosen because I am already chosen—by myself.
It doesn’t need to take you traveling across the globe and four years to feel like a radiant AF woman, it can take you three months if you CHOSE it.
the logistics
3 month commitment
12 live zoom calls
Mixture of learning new skills and practices alongside coaching. We will create a unique path of your own 3 month journey.
My ultimate job is to be an unconditional stand for your desires, not for the parts of you that might want to self sabotage or steer you away from the unknown (we all have those little voices)
THE INVESTMENT
Choosing to invest in CHOSEN is not just a commitment to a program; it's a transformative journey from seeking external validation to becoming a woman who confidently chooses herself.
PAY IN FULL
$5,500
3 MONTH PP
$1,850/month
6 MONTH PP
$930/month
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